The Unchased Life
The Secure Woman Experience
In 12 weeks, stop chasing, overthinking, and settling, and start building the healthy, long-term relationship you want, one on one with Mara and with support between sessions.
Why Women Stall
You’ve done the therapy, read the books, learned your attachment style and talked it through with your friends more times than you can count. And you still check your phone every five minutes when he hasn’t texted back, cancel plans for a maybe, and lie awake replaying what you said. You don’t need more information about why you do it. You need support changing what you do in the moment it happens, with someone in your corner for 12 weeks while you practice.
What You Get in 12 Weeks
Weeks 1–4
Regulate
Focus
What happens in your body when he hasn’t texted back, and how to steady yourself before you react.
By the end
You can feel the urge to check, text, or chase and pause before you act on it.
Weeks 5–8
Reclaim
Focus
What you want, what you need, and what you will and won’t accept.
By the end
You can name your needs and boundaries, and you start saying them out loud.
Weeks 9–12
Rewire
Focus
The old beliefs and rules about love that keep the pattern going, and practicing new responses in real moments.
By the end
You’re making relationship decisions based on what you want and what is actually happening, instead of fear, overthinking, or the need to be chosen.
Inside The Secure Woman Experience
- 12 private 60-minute sessions, one a week.
- Telegram support between sessions. Send a text or voice note when something comes up, and I’ll reply Monday through Friday.
- Tools to stop the spiral. What to do in the moment panic hits, before you check, text, or chase.
- A way to stop the replay loop and get your mind back on your own day.
- Clarity on your needs and boundaries, so you know what you want and what you won’t accept.
- Communication skills for saying what you need clearly, without over-explaining or swallowing it.
- How to read what he’s showing you, so you see what’s really happening and stop guessing what he means.
- Rewiring the old beliefs about love that keep the pattern going, and practicing new responses in real moments.
- Coaching customized to your Human Design, so the support fits how you naturally make decisions, process relationships, and move through change.
What’s Expected From You
- Show up to your weekly 60-minute session, all 12 of them.
- Practice between sessions. The work happens in real moments: the text you want to send, the plan you want to cancel, the conversation you want to avoid.
- Use Telegram for quick questions and voice notes of about 2 to 3 minutes. I reply Monday through Friday, usually within one business day. Bigger topics come to your session.
- Be honest with me, including about the choices you’re not proud of. There’s no judgment here.
- Be ready to make different choices, even when the old one feels easier in the moment.
Telegram isn’t for emergencies or crisis support.
Meet Mara
I spent more than 20 years behind the salon chair listening to women talk about their love lives, and I lived the same pattern myself. I’ve coached since 2020, and since 2023 I’ve focused on helping women stop losing themselves in love. I’ve helped dozens of women through these patterns, and I’m trained in relationship coaching, NLP, hypnosis, somatic work, and attachment theory integration. I built The Secure Woman Experience because understanding your pattern was never enough. You need support changing it in the moment it happens.
What Clients Say
Private coaching client
“Working with Mara has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made for myself.”
She came to me believing she wasn’t good enough or pretty enough and putting enormous pressure on herself to make every relationship work. Through our work, she learned to communicate more effectively, set and keep healthy boundaries, understand her needs, and give herself the love she had been looking for from other people.
About six months after we began working together, she met the man she later married. Today they are married and have a baby.
Outcome: She stopped repeating the same relationship patterns and went on to build the kind of partnership she had wanted.
Private coaching client
“Never used to be able to see the value in myself. And I would just go back into these relationships… Even though he’s asked me back three times… I’m not like just forcing myself to say no but then like crying myself to sleep at night.”
Outcome: She stayed out of the relationship she kept going back to, even after he asked her back three times.
Private coaching client
“Because of our work together, I am able to manage myself better! I am more grounded than ever using the tools you gave me… I was able to stay calm & grounded in the moment… I used the method you gave me to figure out what stories were subconsciously causing my fear. And I was able to rework them & find the courage to speak my truth!! I feel so relieved!!!”
Outcome: She stayed calm in a hard moment with a man, then spoke up about what was bothering her.
Results vary and depend on your individual circumstances and effort.
Your Investment
$3,500 paid in full
or
2 payments of $1,850
$3,700 total
or
3 payments of $1,250
$3,750 total
It includes everything above.
Questions First?
Questions first?
DM me the word READY on Instagram and I’ll answer you personally.